"Do
men use Vibrators? If yes
is it normal for them to do so?
I'm a woman and used a vibrator
quite often and it seems a normal
thing to do"
There are many men who enjoy using
vibrators,
dildos,
masturbation
sleeves and other toys either
with their partner or as an aid
to masturbation, or both. It is
not very rare for men to use these
sex toys, though the image of men
using these sex toys may seem foreign.
Even in the recent past most of
the vibrators were designed for
the use of women, as women respond
well to the vibrating and pulsating
action provided by the vibrators.
Moreover the vibrators seem to make
a better fit with the women's anatomy
rather than with the anatomy of
a man.
The vibrators have been designed
and marketed for women as women
really do respond well to vibrations
while men tend to respond to a different
type of stimulation. All the same
many men at some point in their
sexual lives may have experienced
the feel of a working vibrator on
their penis. This may have happened
as a result of experimentation with
their partner or on their own, and
may or may not be pleasurable enough
to continue on a regular basis.
Therefore, most vibrators have till
date been designed for women.
Despite the design limitation,
some men (as well as some women)
enjoy using a vibrator anally. There
are a group of very sensitive nerves
surrounding the anus that for most
people create pleasure when stimulated.
These nerves can be easily stimulated
with a finger, a tongue, or even
a vibrator. For many people anal
stimulation is a normal part of
their erotic experience.
This anal
stimulation may be fine and
work well for some people, but there
may be a set of people who do not
enjoy anal stimulation at all and
may not find any pleasure in this
activity. These people do not enjoy
having their anus stimulated manually
and hence do not use vibrators,
for it just would not be any fun
or give any enjoyment.
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There
is nothing abnormal about either
men or women using a vibrator. What
is normal depends on the person
you are asking from. There are some
women who don't enjoy vibrators
at all, and there are some men who
love them. But the person using
it has to be comfortable doing so.
If it hurts someone then he/she
may not like it and if it interferes
with normal daily life then there
may be a problem.
Vibrator usage is totally a personal
choice. There are some men who don't
like their female partner using
a vibrator. They fear that the vibrator
is replacing them and their partner
finds greater satisfaction using
the Vibrator, or that it can perform
better than they do. And on the
other side there are some women
who don't like their male partner
using a vibrator for they may fear
that it is an abnormal thing to
do, or that their partner might
be gay.
While these fears could be a real
thing, the mere fact that a man
or woman is using a vibrator does
not make them either gay or abnormal
in any way. The woman could be using
a vibrator because she may be simply
enjoying the sensations and the
pleasure that the Vibrator gives
or she may be using it because she
is not totally satisfied with her
partner. A man using a Vibrator
could be just acting out repressed
homosexual fantasies or he may be
using it just because he likes the
way it feels and the pleasure it
gives him.
If there is any question or doubt
about what is behind a certain behaviour
the only way to ever find out is
to ask.
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