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can I have a clitoral orgasm during intercourse
Have many of us not wondered with worry - "I
have a small clitoris, will i be able to reach orgasm
during intercourse with my husband?"
This is the burning issue of clitoral orgasm is
addressed thoroughly - right here. I have no doubt
that most if not all your worries would vanish like
smoke rings after you have read this article. However,
what worries me is your worry - what is the actual
size of your clitoris and how do you respond to
clitoral stimulation. Irrespective of your response
- bear in mind that there quite a few things that
you can do to increase the chance of having a clitoral
orgasm during intercourse.
The clitoris
The little button - is it so - Do you know that
regardless of size, the clitoris that you consider
"small" has approximately 7,000 extremely
sensitive nerve endings. Why some women achieve
orgasm through clitoral stimulation while others
do not depends only upon the individual and their
unique response to sexual stimulation. Each one
of us is uniquely placed in the broad spectrum of
sexual response. What is important and relevant
is that you can proactive actions to increase the
chance of experiencing a clitoral orgasm during
sexual intercourse.
Physically, we have the clitoris at the most ideal
place on the woman's anatomy. Its position promotes
stimulation during sexual intercourse by your partner
pressing on it especially when you are lying on
your back and he is on top of you. However, unfortunately
some women cannot achieve clitoral orgasm through
this type of indirect stimulation. If you are amongst
these few, then there are a number of things that
you can try.
Manual Stimulation
This is the answer to all your worries and you
can surely benefit from manual stimulation during
intercourse. This can be achieved through numerous
ways that are:
Stroking & Rubbing Either you or your partner
could try stroking and rubbing your clitoris during
intercourse.
Change in Position Change your position to allow
yourself or your partner better access to your clitoris.
Some ways may be:
Missionary Position - this allows you to position
yourselves so that you, or he, can reach your clitoris.
Partner on back - With your partner lying on his
back, try straddling him from above. More upright
you are, the better access you have to your clitoris.
When you sit straight up or even lean backwards
a bit both you and your partner could easily stimulate
your clitoris.
Doggy-style - In this position your partner enters
you from behind. This experimental position offers
many variations that allow you to easily reach your
clitoris.
Sex Toys This is an accessory that cannot be ignored
especially for clitoral orgasm. These toys allow
you to be creative and experimental. Vibrators are
a normal and healthy part of lovemaking for many
couples. A vibrator, when used strategically, can
greatly enhance orgasms and improve the quality
of your love life. Toys such as the vibrator will
feel good for both you and your partner during intercourse.
A small clitoral vibrator such as the Little Bunny
or Micro Dolphin can be used for clitoral stimulation,
vaginal stimulation and even stimulation of your
partner. The Dolphin Erection Arouser is also a
favorite for couples. This can be worn around the
penis for a dual purpose of providing clitoral stimulation
for you and general stimulation for him.
I am sure that you are smiling now. Some of us
who are unable to achieve clitoral orgasm require
manual assistance and simulation. These are ways
and means to ensure our pleasures are heightened.
All it takes is a creative and open mind to experiment
and discover the joys of sexual intercourse.
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