"Do men use Vibrators? If yes is it normal for them to do so? I'm a woman and used a vibrator quite often and it seems a normal thing to do"

There are many men who enjoy using vibrators, dildos, masturbation sleeves and other toys either with their partner or as an aid to masturbation, or both. It is not very rare for men to use these sex toys, though the image of men using these sex toys may seem foreign.

The WHYs of vibrator usage

Even in the recent past most of the vibrators were designed for the use of women, as women respond well to the vibrating and pulsating action provided by the vibrators. Moreover the vibrators seem to make a better fit with the women's anatomy rather than with the anatomy of a man.

The vibrators have been designed and marketed for women as women really do respond well to vibrations while men tend to respond to a different type of stimulation. All the same many men at some point in their sexual lives may have experienced the feel of a working vibrator on their penis. This may have happened as a result of experimentation with their partner or on their own, and may or may not be pleasurable enough to continue on a regular basis. Therefore, most vibrators have till date been designed for women.

Despite the design limitation, some men (as well as some women) enjoy using a vibrator anally. There are a group of very sensitive nerves surrounding the anus that for most people create pleasure when stimulated. These nerves can be easily stimulated with a finger, a tongue, or even a vibrator. For many people anal stimulation is a normal part of their erotic experience.

This anal stimulation may be fine and work well for some people, but there may be a set of people who do not enjoy anal stimulation at all and may not find any pleasure in this activity. These people do not enjoy having their anus stimulated manually and hence do not use vibrators, for it just would not be any fun or give any enjoyment.

There is nothing abnormal about either men or women using a vibrator. What is normal depends on the person you are asking from. There are some women who don't enjoy vibrators at all, and there are some men who love them. But the person using it has to be comfortable doing so. If it hurts someone then he/she may not like it and if it interferes with normal daily life then there may be a problem.

Vibrator usage is totally a personal choice. There are some men who don't like their female partner using a vibrator. They fear that the vibrator is replacing them and their partner finds greater satisfaction using the Vibrator, or that it can perform better than they do. And on the other side there are some women who don't like their male partner using a vibrator for they may fear that it is an abnormal thing to do, or that their partner might be gay.

While these fears could be a real thing, the mere fact that a man or woman is using a vibrator does not make them either gay or abnormal in any way. The woman could be using a vibrator because she may be simply enjoying the sensations and the pleasure that the Vibrator gives or she may be using it because she is not totally satisfied with her partner. A man using a Vibrator could be just acting out repressed homosexual fantasies or he may be using it just because he likes the way it feels and the pleasure it gives him.

If there is any question or doubt about what is behind a certain behaviour the only way to ever find out is to ask.