"Can I use a vibrator, dildo or other sex toys to better prepare myself for sex, as I've never had sex before.?"

This is a very good question that deserves an exploratory and thoughtful answer. To become a better and satisfied lover you need to understand your body, your sexual needs and your responses to stimulation. The following few paragraphs has information on masturbation, sex toys, and getting in tune with your sexual responses. If you still have questions after reading the article, please let us know!

Is it alright if I use a sex toy to prepare myself for sex?

Sex toys will help you understand your bodily needs and responses to different kinds of stimulation and any sexually active individual would definitely benefit from knowing their body. Sex Toys will help you know and understand what you like while having sex, how and where you like to be touched. It will also help you to understand what you and/or your partner can do to maximize your pleasure can lead to a fulfilling and enjoyable sex life. Sex toys will definitely help you with this exploration of your body and its sexual needs.

Masturbation will help you get in touch with yourself.

Once you know your body both men and women would know how they can achieve orgasm and hence can tell their partner what kind of stimulation works for you and how and when you get to an orgasm. And the best way to get to know your body and its sexual needs is through Masturbation. Do remember that masturbation is completely normal, healthy, and natural thing to do and will make you a better lover by education you to your body's sexual needs. So if you haven't begun masturbating already this is a very good place to start to get to know your needs and your body.

To begin with self-exploration all you need is a quiet corner where you will not be disturbed and the recommendation is that you start by using your fingers, and not sex toys( to start with). Start by becoming familiar with your body. Get to know how you like to be touched by touching yourself and noting what feels good. Enjoy and concentrate on the experience and all the subtleties that go along with it. Find out what arouses you - is it clitoral or vaginal stimulation? Or is it a combination of the two? Your goal here is to find what you enjoy - so do what feels good and gives you pleasure.

After a few masturbation "sessions" you will have found out what kind of stimulation works for you. But continue to explore about your pleasures and your body as much as you can, without getting too involved in the routine of having found one way to give you pleasure

Introducing sex toys into masturbation

After these initial masturbation sessions, once you have become familiar and comfortable with your sexual responses you can try to introduce sex toys into your masturbation sessions. Some women find it easier to orgasm with sex toys like a vibrator or a dildo or other sex toys rather than with manual stimulation. Sex toys, particularly vibrators, can provide the powerful sensations some women need to reach climax. Women find that the vibrations of the vibrators are extremely pleasurable, and some women also say that vibrators allow them to work less and concentrate more making orgasm easier and more pleasurable. A sex toy can be considered must have "tool" in your toolbox required for pleasure and enjoyment. Use it wisely, and stay in tune with your body.

So the thing to do to prepare yourself for sex is to get in touch with yourself and your sexual responses. I am assuming that this is a big step for you and that you have talked about this with your partner. Communication like stated before will help ease some of the tension you might feel since it will be your first time and will really help you have a positive outcome. When you're ready to have sex, set up a nice romantic evening with your partner, or ask him or her to help you set the mood. Find a place where you will not be bothered or rushed, relax, light some candles and get into the mood. If you've already learnt about your body and its responses then you will have a definite idea about what makes you feel good and excited. And yes do let your partner know about it as well and just enjoy.