When I opened the package I just laughed but also couldn't wait to try it. First time, I could hardly get the head in...gave up. Next time, maybe a week later, learned to relax and got it in. Felt so full and good. I've honestly only used it a couple of times since then but don't have too much of a problem getting it in so long as I don't rush it. It's hard to rush something that thick. But I still haven't gotten the whole length in. If you're into size, get this thing. Feels great too. Flexible.